Cyberbullying is the use of digital-communication tools (such as the Internet and cell phones) to make another person feel angry, sad, or scared, usually again and again. (Learn about the different roles kids play in a cyberbullying situation.)
Examples of cyberbullying include sending hurtful texts or instant messages, posting embarrassing photos or video on social media, and spreading mean rumors online or with cell phones. If you're trying to figure out whether your kid is being cyberbullied, think about whether the offender is being hurtful intentionally and repeatedly. If the answer is no, the offender might simply need to learn better online behavior. If the answer is yes, take it seriously. |
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Finding out that your kid has been cyberbullied is emotional for parents. You or your kid might want to retaliate, but it's best to help your kid defuse the situation, protect himself, and make rational efforts to put a stop to the bullying. Here are the immediate steps we recommend for parents:
But What if your kid is a cyberbully
Kids with a history of face-to-face bullying also could start to cyberbully, so if this sounds like your kid, you're right to be concerned. These are some signs that could point toward a cyberbullying problem or some other emotional issue that needs attention:
- Reassure your child that you love and support him or her.
- Help your child step away from the computer or device and take a break.
- If you can identify the bully, consider talking with the parents.
- Consider contacting your kid's school. If bullying is happening online, it might be happening offline, too.
- Empower your kid with specific steps he or she can take.
But What if your kid is a cyberbully
Kids with a history of face-to-face bullying also could start to cyberbully, so if this sounds like your kid, you're right to be concerned. These are some signs that could point toward a cyberbullying problem or some other emotional issue that needs attention:
- Behavior changes. Is your normally happy kid grumpy, aggressive, or defiant?
- Slipping grades. Is schoolwork suffering or inconsistent?
- Moodiness. Is your kid only happy when he or she is texting or using the computer -- or happy only when not doing it?
- Habitual use. Is his or her phone constantly buzzing? Is he or she using the computer or texting at all hours?
- Secretive or evasive behavior. Does your kid hide his or her phone or other devices? Does he or she switch screens quickly when you walk by?
- Multiple accounts. Does your kid have several online profiles for one social network, each with a different username and email address?
From https://www.commonsensemedia.org